Should I?

I came across this article while flipping through my mom's Oprah magazine and it really struck a chord in me:


When to Forgive and When to Hold a Grudge


Recently I've found myself expecting less from others so as not to feel disappointed if they let me down and I thought I was, perhaps, selling them short.  After reading this article I have confirmed that my actions are in the name of self preservation.  There are certain types of people I'll always have a "grudge" against - and not necessarily in a negative way but in a way that lets me still enjoy our relationship freely.